tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25689012.post63126553592406542..comments2023-11-05T07:51:12.127-05:00Comments on <br><br><br><center>S2T: Stinkypaw's</center>: Is it cheating if it's in our head?stinkypawhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04418558395508830375noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25689012.post-9010250596584819722009-11-07T23:08:34.761-05:002009-11-07T23:08:34.761-05:00Barb: I liked the "yet" part ;-)
Joanna...<b>Barb</b>: I liked the "yet" part ;-)<br /><br /><b>Joanna</b>: You do that... ;-)<br /><br /><b>Kara</b>: I already knew there was something wrong with me, but I agree with you.<br /><br /><b>Periwinkle</b>: Sorry<br /><br /><b>Michele</b>: I agree. <br /><br /><b>Greenduckies</b>: I also agree<br /><br /><b>Charlie</b>: Intentions are the keys here. I've always said "It's not because I'm on a diet that I can't look at a menu!"<br /><br /><b>Robert</b>: You're too deep for me!! And I'm not interested in "the Lifestyle" at all, at least not now. ;-)stinkypawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04418558395508830375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25689012.post-53766138959067007652009-11-07T16:30:16.605-05:002009-11-07T16:30:16.605-05:00I believe your feelings are quite natural... and i...I believe your feelings are quite natural... and if one wants to get anthropological, we can admit that society over time has developed the concept of monogamous partners as a way to safeguard our lineage. But there is strong evidence of an evolutionary basis for humans to seek multiple partners for genetic diversity. So even though we may be with committed partners, those deep-seated motivations still exist within our human makeup.<br /><br />However, there are those among us who, though strongly opposed to "cheating", have still found a way to celebrate their commitment to their partners yet indulge guilt free, in those desires for multiple partners. Indeed, many believe it actually relationship-enhancing. You might Google "The Lifestyle". You may find it interesting.Robert the Skeptichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10863488312604865183noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25689012.post-24523581552190094662009-11-07T15:59:11.070-05:002009-11-07T15:59:11.070-05:00I agree with those who say it's the intention ...I agree with those who say it's the intention that counts.<br /><br />As far as noticing attractive people:<br /><br />"I may be married, but I ain't buried."Charliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00722567671925063706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25689012.post-78679129447098405162009-11-06T21:35:41.179-05:002009-11-06T21:35:41.179-05:00Okay, I'm incredibly single so I don't kno...Okay, I'm incredibly single so I don't know if my answer really counts or not but here goes:<br /><br />In my opinion, the human body is an art form. For us not to admire it seems like such a waste of beauty. So I see nothing wrong with looking at someone and thinking "Chipotle guy is kind of hot." Just because I find one guy attractive doesn't mean that I find my non-existent husband any less attractive. Nor would I mind if he looked at another woman and said "Hey, she's cute." <br /><br />But I am very much against cheating (to the point that I get furious when someone tells me the Pina Colada song is romantic. No, it's not. He got tired of his lady and decided to answer a personal ad without talking to her about it!). If you feel such an attraction to someone else that you have to act on it, then you need to talk to your partner about it. <br /><br />Do I think you shouldn't fantasize about other people? If it's a celebrity, I don't think it's a big deal. After all, the chances of Will Smith deciding to leave Jada and declare his undying love for me is pretty slim (because I couldn't be with him if he was still married). But if you're imagining tangling in the sheets with the neighbor, that might be a problem.<br /><br />Dreams do not count! Okay, I'm done rambling. I like it when you come up with these deep questions!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25689012.post-40967177509877041702009-11-05T23:41:53.264-05:002009-11-05T23:41:53.264-05:00I don't think it is cheating, being married is...I don't think it is cheating, being married is a commitment that should be honored but it doesn't mean you are not still human and don't notice attractive people. It is what you actually DO not what you think.Site managerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02952854124426393851noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25689012.post-59027196643461955772009-11-05T22:40:47.473-05:002009-11-05T22:40:47.473-05:00Wow! That is a tough one for me to answer....Wow! That is a tough one for me to answer....Periwinkle Studiohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09887367528915049274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25689012.post-48297752717959870502009-11-05T21:55:12.219-05:002009-11-05T21:55:12.219-05:00if you manage to stay with one person for the rest...if you manage to stay with one person for the rest of your life and never once fantasize about another...there's something wrong with you.karahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01690274092026593186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25689012.post-37672553160260432092009-11-05T20:35:21.599-05:002009-11-05T20:35:21.599-05:00Hmmm, there's no easy answer to that one. I h...Hmmm, there's no easy answer to that one. I have to think about it while I'm daydreaming about Daniel Craig.<br /><br />xoJoanna Jenkinshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10836376588710862173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25689012.post-8384164946075976832009-11-05T17:31:59.174-05:002009-11-05T17:31:59.174-05:00It's human to find other people attractive. W...It's human to find other people attractive. When create situations in which you deliberately run into them, it isn't cheating -- yet; but it's definitely headed that way. As for daydreaming about someone and I don't mean unattainable people, I don't know, but I know I wouldn't like it if my husband did that.Barbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05538106233407301480noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25689012.post-55459881199656788752009-11-05T12:03:20.784-05:002009-11-05T12:03:20.784-05:00Titaxy: I agree
Mousse: LOL
Marius: Thanks for t...<b>Titaxy</b>: I agree<br /><br /><b>Mousse</b>: LOL<br /><br /><b>Marius</b>: Thanks for the honesty.<br /><br /><b>princess</b>: I'd fight him for her though! ;-) She's one hot mama!<br /><br /><b>GEM</b>: LOL, you might be right about that! ;-)<br /><br /><b>Meg</b>: I believe the intention counts for a lot too.<br /><br /><b>ModerMom</b>: Welcome to my world! My husband reminds me (at times!) he's not resposible for things he does in MY dreams! <br /><br /><b>I Say...</b>: It's all about choices, isn't it? ;-)stinkypawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04418558395508830375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25689012.post-35915279189651866142009-11-05T11:34:54.398-05:002009-11-05T11:34:54.398-05:00Dreaming at night is totally different than day dr...Dreaming at night is totally different than day dreaming, it's then that we choose our subjects..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25689012.post-87104489320967925262009-11-05T10:11:35.123-05:002009-11-05T10:11:35.123-05:00I would have to say if you are daydreaming about s...I would have to say if you are daydreaming about something you are not comforable about discussing with your partner? MMM WOuld you want him doing that? I'm the jealous type and would have to say I would tell him he is a dream cheater and to cut it out! LOLStephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17218519474695662328noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25689012.post-81149145634031700032009-11-05T08:02:00.763-05:002009-11-05T08:02:00.763-05:00I've always been of the opinion that thinking ...I've always been of the opinion that thinking is very near doing. Daydreaming about someone else, in my opinion, is wrong. Granted, there will be people that you find attractive, it's just not right to imagine a romp under the covers with them. However, dreaming when you're sleeping, well, there's not really anything you can do about that.Meghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17975473150053998560noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25689012.post-86831588524095210322009-11-04T22:17:26.939-05:002009-11-04T22:17:26.939-05:00s/b too many vampire books. Ugh!
Hugs!!s/b too many vampire books. Ugh!<br /><br />Hugs!!Green-Eyed Momsterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10175981627284967050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25689012.post-61619748489849652822009-11-04T22:16:53.433-05:002009-11-04T22:16:53.433-05:00I think you're reading to many vampire books! ...I think you're reading to many vampire books! Step away from the books! LOL!!<br /><br />I have no idea what's in your brain. Only you do!!! <br /><br />Hugs!!Green-Eyed Momsterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10175981627284967050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25689012.post-27983573416071729412009-11-04T22:11:01.687-05:002009-11-04T22:11:01.687-05:00totally not cheating imo
my husband knows i have ...totally not cheating imo<br /><br />my husband knows i have "a list", lucky for him it's highly unlikely that i will ever run into Hugh Jackman dressed as Wolverine though.<br />(also, HE has his own list, i'm not too worried that Alyssa Milano will be fighting me for him)princess sleahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15089134046270139411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25689012.post-71867248662841225182009-11-04T18:39:29.895-05:002009-11-04T18:39:29.895-05:00There have been many occasions where my wife got a...There have been many occasions where my wife got an 'energetic' evening due to me being all worked up over some sweet young thing I noticed at some point. I'd be surprised if there were any human who was completely able to control their thoughts to such an extent. To me it's what you do with that thought that counts.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09452924829161040975noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25689012.post-59119766783219457502009-11-04T14:37:02.514-05:002009-11-04T14:37:02.514-05:00Well have to discuss this on Saturday nite and see...Well have to discuss this on Saturday nite and see !!! I definitely have an opinion :-)<br />See ya'll then !!!Moussenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25689012.post-1885510483499875732009-11-04T13:35:47.167-05:002009-11-04T13:35:47.167-05:00i don't think it's cheating if it is in th...i don't think it's cheating if it is in the mind, acc to me....i mean we interact with so many people on a regular basis, it's possible not to see someone and think "oh he is cute" or whatever...but that should be about it...that's what i feelTitaxyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18116080656272275133noreply@blogger.com