For all of you who were born in the 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s and even 70s.
First, we survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they carried us. They took aspirin, ate blue cheese dressing, tuna from a can, and didn't get tested for diabetes. Then after that trauma, our baby cribs were covered with bright colored lead-based paints. We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors or cabinets.
As children,when we rode our bikes, we had no helmets. we would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags. Riding in the back of a pick up on a warm day was always a special treat, not to mention, the risks we took hitchhiking.
We drank water from the garden hose and NOT from a bottle. We shared one soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and NO ONE actually died from this. We ate cupcakes, white bread and real butter and drank soda pop with sugar in it, but we weren't overweight because WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING!
We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the streetlights came on. No one was able to reach us all day. And we were O.K. We would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then ride down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into the bushes a few times, we learned to solve the problem.
We did not have Playstations, Nintendo's, X-boxes, no video games at all, no 99 channels on cable, no video tape movies, no surround sound, no cell phones, no personal computers, no Internet or Internet chat rooms...WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside and found them!
We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no lawsuits from these accidents. We ate worms and mud pies made from dirt, and the worms did not live in us forever.
We were given BB guns for our 10th birthdays, made up games with sticks and tennis balls and although we were told it would happen, we did not put out very many eyes.
We rode bikes or walked to a friend's house and knocked on the door or rang the bell, or just yelled for them! Little League had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't had to learn to deal with disappointment. Imagine that!!
The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of. They actually sided with the law!
The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas. We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned HOW TO DEAL WITH IT ALL! And YOU are one of them! CONGRATULATIONS!
You might, like me, have had the luck to grow up as kids, before the lawyers and the government regulated our lives for our own good. It is almost scary to think that some kids who would read this might think how brave their parents were.
Times do change... don't you think?
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13 comments:
"...we did not put out very many eyes." Only a few. ;-)
its crazy that parents have to work 50,60,70 hours a week now to make ends meet or get the job done - its gotten so expensive to live and yet the toys get even more fancy and expensive as well - not sure where Im going with this but jus thought Id say something =)
I think we have everything backwards. More ease and stuff (in food, and our lives) has led to more discontent and disease. I relish the life we grew up with and I love your description of it. I have had the exact convo wit several parent friends of mine. Great Post!
That is so true! I told my niece once that we didn't have a 24-hour cartoon channel when I was growing up and she thought I was lying. ;-)
So true. So very true. It's weird to think how quickly things change.
I remember when the ice cream man wasn't a drug dealer. *sigh*
All so true! My mother even took doctor-prescribed "diet" pills when she was pregnant with my brother and sister. It's a different world now, absolutely. And while I love that I now live in air-conditioning, I hate that kids today do all their playing in it, as well. Send 'em out to sweat!
dcmm: Bah! only a few... ;-)
kala: Our priorities changed too much, and not for the best...
wreckless: Thank you, it's getting too easy or simply "too".
anake: Imagine that! ;-)
paisley: Man! Never even thought of that one!
lizgwiz: Kids just don't outside anymore. We live in the suburbs and I very seldom see kids playing outside... sad. How I would have loved to have a backyard growing up! I used to play in back alleys!
My daughters asked me over the weekend what an 8 track was.
*cries*
So very, very true. I remember playing out all day, my mother's favourite saying, 'they are filthy dirty, so I know they had a good day'. I really wish that parents wouldn't wrap their children in cotton wool, how are they going to survive without experiencing life?
boy does this bring back memories.
Times sure have changed and not all for the better. Even though we were fine playing outside all day without our parents knowing where we were/what we were doing, I'd be terrified to let my kids/Godchildren do the same thing. There are more wackos out there, or at least it seems that way.
c_t_w: 8 tracks? I remember those...
st jude: Life experiences those gave us our caracter! I'm happy I had some experiences, built up my "immune" system!
kim: Changes are not always for the better, unfortunately!
It IS amazing how times have changed. I can't imagine letting the kid out of the house if I don't know where he's going to be every minute! eek
atm: It is pretty freaky when you think back... the things we used to do and never even thought that something could happen... eek is right!
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