Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Should I or not, that is the question?

Oh the joy of being a woman at times... it is overwhelming. 

I've never been a girly girl.  I don't really wear make up (except eye liner and mascara), I don't wear skirts or dresses often (except for formal occasions, like weddings), I very rarely wear high heels, and until a few months ago never spent much time doing my hair either.  That last thing changed, since I thought I wanted a change and tried to let my hair grow.  What a nightmare it has been.  EVERY day I MUST place my hair, which I never really did before.  I hate it.  Low maintenance is a requisite for me. 

I've been debating if I should get it cut or not.  I'm going in this week (Thursday) and once again I'm debating, with myself (since my dearest current husband has no opinion whatsoever when it comes to my hair), if I should get it cut.  Since I've decided to let it grow, most people (except for my mother) told me it suited me well.   I have a big round face, so no matter the length, I have a big round face!

I've also noticed, since my hair is longer, that I'm losing a lot more of it.  Is there anything more disgusting than washing yourself and having hairs stuck to your fingers?  I hate that feeling. I find I'm almost shedding as much as our cat.  I didn't use to notice it as much when my hair was shorter. 

I used to have it really short, especially when I used to do martial arts. Having it the length it's at now is a little more feminine, I will admit that, but I'm wondering if it's really worth the time and effort at this point...

Time will tell how I will deal with this dilemma of mine. Eh.

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

I've seen the hair recently - LOVE it, Keep the "do", it suits you !!! Hey...I'm a poet and don't know it !!! HA-HA...Mousse xoxo

Marius said...

Personally I find short hair on women to be extremely attractive. And as if in harmony the captcha word is cropt.

Monkey said...

It sounds like you want that hair gone. just do it- make yourself happy. That is all that really matters- I promise you not a single person will love you, like you, find you more amazing with different hair.

grumpy said...

more annoyed when the fleeing hairs gather in your buttcrack. TMI????

TechnoBabe said...

Like you, I don't wear makeup, don't ever dress up (at least you go to weddings) and my hair is short. In fact, I cut my own hair and this week cut it very short. Hubby says the short hair makes my eyes stand out. Well, so be it. The reason for the short hair is the convenience. No hair dryer, no hot curlers. I hope you just do what you are happiest with, no matter what it is.